It's not a secret that I don't participate in social media. Twitter is just like two drunk college debate teams duking it out in a Circle K parking lot; Facebook exists so people can overshare personal info so that companies and advertisers can build profiles and sell that data all over the web; and TikTok is dancing nurses at best, but probably more like a psyop from an unfriendly foreign power that just seeks to turn our youth's brains into mush. So then you may be shocked to learn that I broke down and set up an Instagram account.
Here is the backstory: Wendy and I were following some trail runners and through hikers attempting to do the whole 817 mile Arizona Trail in record time. The FKT, or Fastest Known Time, has several categories, but the swiftest to complete the course did it just shy of 14 days. Since it was such an epic effort there were no camera crews on the most recent attempts, so the participants updated via Instagram.
I created an account and followed the runners, crew, and some other endurance athletes. All was well for a few days, but then I got a notice that my account was suspected of suspicious activity and I needed to verify my information. This struck me as odd since I had two-factor authentication enabled and a password that would have taken two supercomputers and a pre-Capaldi Dr. Who to crack. Still, I went through and verified my email, password, and phone -- no problem. Then it asked for what I can only call a "mug shot." Instagram wanted me to write down this code and my username on a piece of paper. Then I was to take a selfie and send it to them for "verification." Having been on the Internet for almost thirty years and having hundreds of accounts with various providers, I have never once been asked for a mug shot. It made me furious, and of course I did not provide it. As such they deleted my Instagram account, and good riddance to it.
This leads me to today's point: You don't have to provide information just because a website or online store asks for it. It's your information. It's personal and you have the power to choose with whom and when you share it. There is no reason that JC Penny needs to know your birthday. You don't have to tell Facebook where you went to high school. Be selfish with your information. It's yours, not theirs, and you have the right to do with it as you wish. It's okay to say "no." And many times these days, saying no will go a long way to protecting your precious personal information. |